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SEPARATION & RELATIONSHIP BREAKDOWN

When your relationship changes,
your home needs a careful plan.

Deciding what to do with a shared home can involve children, finances and difficult conversations. You do not have to begin with a sale decision. Start with what each person needs next and get independent advice on your rights.

Talk through your situation

A workable next chapter matters more than a rushed decision.

Clera can help make the property options easier to compare. Your legal advisers should deal with ownership, entitlements and any settlement, so those decisions are supported by the right expertise.

WHERE TO START

First, make room for a clearer decision.

01

Take independent legal advice on ownership and your circumstances, including whether you are married, civil partners or cohabiting.

02

Clarify the ongoing mortgage, household costs and immediate housing needs while decisions are being made.

03

Compare keeping, transferring or selling the home before agreeing a marketing plan.

HOW CLERA CAN HELP

Your circumstances shape the plan.

01

Bring structure to the property decision

We can help you compare realistic values, selling costs, timescales and routes, based on what the move needs to make possible.

02

Keep the process practical

We help shape a sale brief around agreed instructions and communication preferences, alongside your professional advisers. We do not decide how proceeds should be divided.

You choose whether to proceed and remain free to select your own advisers. We will explain any referral relationship before making an introduction.

OPTIONS TO COMPARE

Different routes. Different trade-offs.

Sell and move separately

An agreed sale may release funds for separate homes. The division of proceeds needs to follow the legal agreement or relevant order.

Plan both onward housing needs

One person keeps the home

A buyout or ownership transfer may be an option. Legal advice and lender approval are needed where a mortgage is involved.

Affordability must be assessed

Agree to defer the sale

In some circumstances a legally documented arrangement can postpone selling. Ongoing costs, triggers and responsibilities need clarity.

Continuing financial ties remain

Choose a faster sale route

If both parties have authority and agree, auction or a direct sale may offer a different timetable. Compare fees and likely proceeds carefully.

Urgency should be understood by both
BEFORE YOU COMMIT

The details worth checking.

  • Authority and agreement: Confirm who owns the property, who must consent and whether a court order affects the sale.
  • Mortgage responsibility: Moving out does not automatically release someone from a joint mortgage. Discuss payment difficulties with the lender promptly.
  • Net proceeds: Account for the mortgage, secured borrowing, legal and selling fees before discussing money available for the next move.
  • Children and housing: Consider stability, school and care arrangements alongside price and timing.
  • Safe communication: If contact with a partner feels unsafe, seek specialist support and arrange communication through an appropriate professional.
COMMON QUESTIONS

A little more clarity.

Does separation mean we have to sell?

No. Selling, transferring ownership or postponing a sale may be options. What is possible depends on legal rights, borrowing and the needs of those involved.

Will the proceeds always be split equally?

Do not assume that. Marriage, civil partnership, cohabitation, ownership documents and any court orders can affect the position. Each person should obtain independent legal advice.

Your next step, at your pace

Talk through the property options at your pace.

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